On this episode of Margins from Managing Editor, we talk about getting unstuck. For me it’s rather ironic — because I actually got stuck writing about this episode about getting stuck.
There’s no telling when we’ll suddenly feel as if we’re trapped in the Sunken Place, but should we ever be surprised that we’re stuck? Like it or not, it’s part of the creative process. Our two guests today are both professional writers who have their own unique stories and perspectives on one of the most frustrating parts of the creative process.
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John Jantsch is president of Duct Tape Marketing and author of “The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur.” The book is a series of daily devotionals and exercises specifically tailored for entrepreneurs. As a unique take on the business book, it draws from transcendentalist thought to help entrepreneurs better focus their efforts.
But what does self-reliance actually mean? Some might associate it with living like a hermit in a remote cabin, chopping wood and taking baths in a backyard pond, but for John it’s a lot simpler — and maybe less physically taxing. “You don’t have to listen to others,” he says. “You need to listen to yourself and follow your own path.”
To John, self-reliance ultimately comes down to control — specifically losing it. Here’s how he puts it: “You trust yourself so thoroughly that first off you allow yourself to explore ideas that other people are saying are crazy,” he says. “And you also allow yourself to let go of the control that you have over how you believe something ought to come out.”
“I believe that the self-reliant entrepreneur is going to save the world.”
Sometimes You’re More Than Just Stuck
Jessica Holmes is a comedian and mental health advocate who wrote “Depression — The Comedy: A Tale of Perseverance.”
Jessica says she suffered through a five-year depression, an affliction that may sound familiar to creatives. Creative work can take a mental toll, and getting stuck can become something that extends beyond your professional life and into your personal life. “It’s just a horrible feeling,” Jessica says.
As part of her recovery, Jessica has embraced being outdoors more. She tries to have meetings in parks, for instance, rather than a coffee shop. But a big point of emphasis for her is that those suffering from mental health issues need to realize they’re not alone. Finding someone to share your experiences with is incredibly important. Jessica, for example, belongs to a private Facebook group where she can vent about her experiences working as a speaker. She’s found it enormously helpful. “I’m more open knowing that I’m one of thousands who go through this kind of thing,” she says. “You don’t feel hopeless or desperate, and you understand that this is simply a cyclical part of the job.”
“Reaching out and connecting to like-minded individuals goes such a long way.”
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